Strategies for Effective Dating & Relationships~17 February 2018 10.00-16.00 (Workshop)
Have you not had a decent date in ages? Tired of dating different men with the same poor results? Feeling frightened of entering the dating minefield? Unsure if you want a?relationship with a man, let alone get married??Would you like to increase your confidence in your interactions with men??
Come to this practical one-day workshop to improve your confidence in dating and relationships with men. Here you will learn how to:
- apply respect and values in your dating relationships
- trust and set healthy boundaries
- identify 10 Relationship Red Flags-how to deal with them
- maintain your dignity in relationships
- understand men better
- meet quality men offline – 7 ways
- assess his / your relationship readiness – specific steps
- enjoy the process – YES it’s possible!
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This interactive workshop designed for a small group (20 max) will allow plenty of time for discussion, practical exercises and a valuable ?take-away? toolkit. This event is for Women only which allows some in-depth frank conversations without distractions. All attendees will be asked to sign a Confidentiality Agreement and disclaimer which contributes to the safety of everyone present.? ?A hot lunch buffet and refreshments will be provided.
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?TESTIMONIALS
- The workshop teaching was very good, so were the structure of session, materials, venue, and refreshments. (Stylist)
- I loved that we are able to relate to our life experiences and reflect upon where we met our past partners and how we were treated. Not to ignore the red flags, which I did feel and hear but didn’t do anything to address them back then, but now with this knowledge am about to assertive myself.? (Administrator)
- I decided to get some counseling after yet another rejection from a Christian guy propelled me into the arms of someone I knew wasn?t good for me; I was sick of being single!?Janet helped me by challenging my thinking and attitude towards dating, helping to restore my self-worth, validating my feelings and giving me the tools I needed to date men and have a successful relationship. Soon after I finished my counseling sessions I made the decision to go on dates. The first person I met turned out to be my husband-to-be. It was a ?God thing?, a divine appointment if you like, but only because I was ready to pursue it. If I hadn?t have done the counseling beforehand and learned from Janet and the authors she introduced me to, we probably wouldn?t be together ? I would have missed my opportunity. I encourage any single girl who wants to be married to explore Janet?s Effective Dating Strategies ? it worked for me! (Professional Musician)?
Recovering From a Fractious Childhood
Fractious -?Easily upset or annoyed or difficult to please, bad-tempered, irritable, moody, unpredictable. Causing problems and disagreement eg: A fractious mother causes a child to walk on eggshells. Never knowing where they stand ? creating anxiety and distress in a child… in some cases trauma.?
A?fractious childhood relates to Adverse?Childhood Experiences (ACEs). On 5th March 2017, I returned as Studio Counsellor to the “Premier Tonight” Show with Presenter Michael Fanstone, to discuss this heartbreaking topic, and to provide advice for the listeners. There were so many calls, emails, and text messages, that we could only respond to about half of them by the end of the two-hour?live show. I felt so sad that there wasn’t enough time, yet so much pain unaddressed in the church community. I couldn’t just leave it there! So, I decided to create a series to unpack this subject in order to share more?understanding of ACEs. ?I will also provide some practical resources and encouragement to empower people?to move towards a more fulfilling life.
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Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) tend to impact people during their childhood and into adulthood. The more of these ACEs a child experiences, the greater risk for health problems in childhood – and into adulthood. Interpersonal relationships are can also be negatively impacted as the ability to trust appropriately is impaired due to the trauma. This can leave someone feeling misunderstood, lonely and isolated. In extreme cases feeling suicidal in the hope the pain will end. However, significant recovery is possible, through effective talking treatments such as counselling or group therapy, psychoeducation, prayer support and gradually participating in a healthy loving community.
As the radio show was on a Christian Radio Station, these blogs will include some biblical examples and case?studies, although the principles are relevant for people of any or non-faith backgrounds – because we are all humans who started off as children.
The Bible has much to say about how children should be cared for, it also provides hope for those who have suffered.
- Fathers, do not provoke?or?irritate?or?exasperate your children [with demands that are trivial or unreasonable or humiliating or abusive; nor by favouritism or indifference; treat them tenderly with loving kindness], so they will not lose heart?and?become discouraged?or?unmotivated [with their spirits broken]. ??Colossians?3:21
- The LORD is near to the brokenhearted And saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18
- He heals the brokenhearted And binds up their wounds. ??Psalm 147:3
PODCAST : PREMIER TONIGHT 5th March 2017: Recovering From A Fractious Childhood follows this post
Beyond Loneliness – WEBINAR 21st December 8.00pm GMT/ 3.00pm EST
https://app.webinarjam.net/register/34821/0b3b5d1291
“I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don?t know why,?some people fill the gaps and others emphasise my loneliness”
– Ana?s Nin
Most people will feel lonely at some point in their lives. It?s a deeply personal experience that in most cases will thankfully pass, but for a growing number of people of all ages, loneliness can have a significant impact on their wellbeing. This is especially magnified during the holidays.
This timely, live webinar discusses effective strategies for dealing with the pain of loneliness and isolation.
Presented by two psychologists and a registered counsellor with 55 years of combined experience of helping people transform their relationships, the webinar will highlight steps you can take to move beyond loneliness. This live discussion will include time for Questions & Answers.
Register now! ?https://
HOSTS
Dr?Isaura Gonzalez is founder and CEO of Latina Mastermind. She is dedicated to empowering Latinas by teaching them to stand in their own power as they establish affluence and influence in their respective fields. She is an expert on Diversity and Inclusion having created a work wellness program encompassing civility, disruptive behaviours, emotional intelligence and anger management.
Dr?Gonzalez is a practicing Licensed Psychologist specializing in Clinical Psychology and a Board Certified Coach operating a very successful private practice in New York.
She is the Founder of Latina College Corner, Latinas In Action (LIA) and Co-Founder of Latinos Empowering Others (LEO).
Dr?Gonz?lez holds a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology, a double minor in French and Sociology from Villanova University, a Master of Arts in General-Experimental Psychology, an M. A. and a Psy. D. in Clinical Psychology. She was a 2013 National Hispana Leadership Institute (NHLI) Executive Leadership Program (ELP) fellow and is an alumna of the Harvard University?s Kennedy School of Government Executive Education.
Janet McNish PGDip (MBACP) Reg.
Counsellor, trainer, blogger, professional mentor, radio presenter international public speaker ? ? ? ? ? ? ? Janet?s professional career and personal history make her an intuitive counsellor, with particular expertise in trauma and relationships.
Janet?s professional career and personal history make her an intuitive counsellor, with particular expertise in trauma and relationships. Since earning her Postgraduate Diploma in Counselling in 1998, Janet has co-ordinated 2 mental health projects with SLAM South London And Maudsley Health Trust, and was Clinical Services Director of a Counselling Service managing a team of 20 multicultural Counsellors and Training Program. ?Janet has effectively counselled individuals, couples and groups for 20 years.
A regular media contributor including radio shows since 2007 where she discusses ?Hot Topics? from a Psychological and Existential perspective. Such as BBC World Service, Premier Radio, Ruach Christian Radio, Urban Gospel Network Radio (UGN Jamz), BEN TV. Janet is an engaging speaker at has presented at conferences in London UK, South Africa and USA.
She serves as London Area Co-ordinator for the Association of Christian Counsellors (the national accrediting body providing quality counselling and pastoral care in the UK). Janet professional services are available face to face and by Skype to individuals adults and groups and organisations.
Drs Louky De Lange
Drs. De Lange studied child and adolescent psychology and health psychology. She has worked for someone who has her own practice and they did a lot of research for the Youth Care Office and the Council for Child Protection. She worked at different schools for children with learning difficulties and disruptive behaviour.
In 2008 Drs. De Lange started her own practice and has worked with both children and adults diagnosed with PTSD, depression, anxiety and panic disorders, burn-out, behaviour disorders and learning difficulties. In 2016 she started a global brand in health psychology. Her mission is to connect people to who they truly are, to their core and to focus on their talent and qualities. She focuses on clearing the limiting beliefs, old patterns and changing the mindset of people.
Spaces are limited, please don’t miss this remarkable opportunity.
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PODCAST Loneliness & Isolation – Premier Christian Radio 04/09/2016
http://premierchristianradio.com
PREMIER TONIGHT: Michael Fanstone & Studio Counsellor Janet McNish discussed the epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation?Janet responded to calls & messages LIVE ON AIR with understanding and some practical solutions.
LISTEN HERE: Loneliness & Isolation Podcast?
LONELINESS AND ISOLATION.?Loneliness is no respecter of persons; you could be male or female, introvert or extrovert, young or elderly, married, single, successful in your career (consider Michael Jackson, Peaches Geldof, Amy Winehouse …) beautiful, wealthy, unwell, at peak of fitness…
What is loneliness? What is isolation? What is alone? What is solitude? ?
Causes of loneliness??How loneliness impacts your health.
How can I overcome loneliness and isolation? How has loneliness affected you?
LISTEN HERE: Loneliness & Isolation Podcast
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