Does this feel familiar?
You can be highly capable and still lose yourself in the relationships that matter most.
You may be confident and decisive in many areas of your life, yet find yourself questioning your judgement, silencing your needs or carrying more than your fair share.
You might be single, dating, divorced, widowed, in a situationship, or navigating a difficult relationship with a family member, friend, colleague or leader.
The relationship may be different, but the questions are often the same:
Lead Yourself to Healthier Love is a focused, practical Relationship Intelligence workshop designed to help you recognise where you may be abandoning yourself and respond with greater clarity, wisdom, and self-trust.
In this workshop, you will…
Recognise
Where you may be overfunctioning, overriding yourself or over-accommodating.
Understand
The difference between caring deeply and carrying responsibility that is not yours.
Separate
What is yours, what belongs to the other person and what can only be created together.
Notice
How fear, hope or attachment issues may be influencing your decisions.
Learn
The PEARLS WISE PAUSE©, a practical four-step tool for approaching relationship difficulties with greater clarity
Apply
Apply the PEARLS WISE PAUSE© to a real relationship or decision in your own life
Define
Identify one relationship standard, boundary or value you need to honour
Leave with clarity
Leave with one PEARLS WISE PAUSE© step to take within the next 72 hours
Who is this workshop for?
This workshop is for women who:
- want to choose a loving, emotionally mature and compatible partner;
- feel confused by inconsistency, mixed signals or unfulfilled potential;
- feel unseen, lonely or dissatisfied within a relationship;
- repeatedly overgive, overfunction or carry relationships alone;
- struggle to communicate their needs or maintain healthy boundaries;
- question their judgement when emotion, attachment or hope are involved;
- want healthier relationships with partners, family, friends, colleagues or leaders;
- are ready to love deeply without continually losing themselves.
Lead Yourself to Healthier Love is for women who recognise that the quality of their relationships no longer reflects the woman they are becoming, and who feel ready to approach love with greater clarity, self-trust and intention.
What does your ticket include?
Your £27 investment includes:
- 1
a live 75-minute Relationship Intelligence workshop;
- 2an optional 15-minute live question-and-answer session;
- 3
the PEARLS WISE PAUSE© Reflection Card;
- 4guided reflection and practical application during the session.
Because of the personal nature of the workshop and the conversations that may arise, the session will not be recorded or made available as a replay.
Should you join The Pearls Experience within seven days of the workshop, your full £27 workshop investment will be credited towards your programme payment.
About Janet McNish
Janet McNish MBACP is a Relationship Intelligence Specialist and trauma-informed relationship counsellor who has spent 30 years helping people navigate relationship difficulties, trauma, boundaries, loss, and life’s most significant decisions. As a coach, author, and speaker, she brings both deep clinical training and genuine lived understanding to every client she works with.
Janet is the author of 30 Pearls of Wisdom on Love & Relationships and creator of The Pearls Experience – a transformational methodology and programme that helps women build self-leadership, healthy boundaries, discernment, and lasting relationship wisdom. Her work doesn’t stop at insight: it’s designed to move women from understanding their frustrating patterns to genuinely living differently with increasing freedom.
What sets Janet apart is the blend of rigorous professional expertise paired with warmth, candour, and practical, real-world guidance. Clients come to her carrying pain from relationships that didn’t work; they leave with clarity, self-trust, and the tools to build relationships that do work. Every conversation is grounded in honesty rather than easy comfort, because Janet believes real change starts with the truth, gently told.
Frequently Asked Questions
Yes. The 75-minute workshop will be followed by an optional 15-minute live question-and-answer session.
No. The workshop is relevant whether you are single, dating, in a long-term relationship or reflecting on relationships with family, friends, colleagues or leaders.
No. Because of the personal nature of the workshop and what participants may choose to share, it will not be recorded or made available as a replay.
There will not be a replay, so please book only when you expect to attend the live session.
You will receive the PEARLS WISE PAUSE© Reflection Card to support your continued reflection after the workshop.
No. This is an educational and reflective workshop rather than individual or group therapy. You will be invited to apply the framework privately to your own circumstances.
Have another question? Please contact us, and I’ll be happy to help.
RESERVE YOUR PLACE
Your relationships deserve the same wisdom, care and intention you bring to the rest of your life.
Bring greater clarity, self-trust and intention to the relationships that matter most.
Reserve your place and take your next PEARLS WISE PAUSE© step.
Thursday 20 August 2026
7:00 to 8:30 pm BST
Live online via Zoom
£27
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